Children like to touch their mother's face and hands to sleep?
There are many such children, who have slept with their mothers since childhood, and some still cling to their mothers' hair. In fact, children have let him sleep alone since childhood, and they have formed habits since childhood. Children don't know anything when they are young, and all kinds of habits are used to by adults. Some adults are too fond of them, and children have to satisfy everything.
Yes, when my daughter was young, she always held my face in her hands to sleep. She didn't allow me to sleep with my back to her. Maybe she felt that sleeping like this made her feel more secure. At that time, she was two or three years old, so she relied on her mother wholeheartedly and liked her mother, which made me feel so fulfilled. So I would let her hold it. When she fell asleep, I turned around again, because I didn't think it was good to breathe into her all the time.
In fact, this kind of performance of children is obvious and has something to do with "skin hunger". The so-called skin hunger means that when the child is in the mother's belly, there is a warm uterine package and the touch of amniotic fluid, and the child feels very safe. However, with the birth of the child, he felt the cold and hot environment of the outside world, as well as the danger that might appear at any time. His sense of security disappeared, but he instinctively needed to kiss, hug and touch to rebuild his sense of security. If children don't get enough caress and touch from their parents when they are young, they will show "skin hunger"
Usually, children with "skin hunger" not only have the habit of touching their mother to sleep, but also like to pat and touch before going to bed; Suck your fingers to sleep; I like to sleep with blankets or toys and so on. If your children also show "skin hunger", parents will definitely be disturbed by these "problems", which will affect their sleep and personal activities. However, it is suggested that mothers should satisfy their children.
When children are very young, they can enjoy the feeling of warmth and security by touching their parents' bodies. However, with the growth of children's age, their sexual consciousness is enlightened. If they still touch their parents' bodies frequently, they may have physiological reactions, even precocious puberty, fetishism and abnormal sexual attitudes, so parents must pay attention to this issue.
Generally speaking, touching the mother should gradually disappear at the age of 3, but if the child is over 3 years old and still likes to touch the mother to sleep, parents must correct it as soon as possible, so as to be conducive to the normal development of the child's body and mind.
When this happens, parents often need to gently appease their children.
Spend more time with your children.
After the child is born, parents will have more responsibility. Parents should not use busy work as an excuse, but try to take time out to spend more time with their children.
Especially when children are young, children at that time are often insecure, and they are very sensitive to things.
Therefore, parents should always accompany their children and let them feel their love, so that children will not like to touch something.
This is the child's natural reaction, dominated by the subconscious. Not only touching the face, children like to rest their heads in their mother's arms when they sleep! This makes him feel safe, because he was already familiar with his mother's heartbeat when he was in her belly. When he was close to his mother and heard the familiar heartbeat, he would be quiet and feel safe!
Children like to touch their mother's face or hold her hand to sleep. Well, he thinks it can give him a sense of security, and then he can feel, Oh, my mother is by my side when I sleep. Well, these habits have been formed since childhood, and he may like to sleep like this when he is a baby, just like our children must hug their mothers when they sleep at night, but what to do when they fall asleep.
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