This phenomenon has happened to almost every family with children, but some parents who have complicated housework or work have no time to pack up their toys, because children are still young, active and particularly interested in new things. After a while, they will play this and that, and in a few minutes, there will be no place to stay at home! So what should we do? Here I want to give you some suggestions:

　　1. First, take photos of every messy corner with your mobile phone!

　　2. Play a storage game with children to see who picks up more, the role model effect of parents, help children establish storage habits, and consolidate the counting by the way.

　　3. If the child doesn't want to store toys, you can let the child's foot step on a bumpy toy and feel it, and tell him that his mother will walk back and forth. If she steps on something, her foot will get hurt. Do you want her to get hurt? Most children will pick it up at once!

　　4. Make rules before playing with toys. If you don't summarize the toys after playing with toys, your mother will help you sort them out, but the consequence is that I will make all the toys sorted by my mother disappear, and I won't give them back to you, and I won't buy you new toys. You choose whether to tidy up the toys yourself, and parents will do it when they say so, otherwise the rules will not stand!

　　5. Sort out the photos of every corner of the toy and the previous photos, make a sharp contrast, and tell the children that this is a photo that has changed the family through their own labor. What do you want our family to be like? What kind of home will your good friend like when he visits home? I believe the children will make the right choice!

　　I hope my answer is helpful to you. Once a preschool educator, now a full-time nanny!

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　　Hello, I'm teacher lulu, and I'm glad to answer your questions.

　　It is a habit to let children learn to clean up their toys from an early age.

　　The habit of putting the played toys back in place should be cultivated from the time the children have the first toy!

　　When the baby just learned to walk, we held him with our hands, and sent back the toys we had played. When we played one toy well, we had to send it back before we could exchange it for another toy.

　　This is not only a habit problem, but also will seriously damage the child's concentration!

　　When children play with toys, develop the habit of fixing areas.

　　Prepare a fixed small table for children, or spread a plain blanket on the ground, and the children will sit at the edge of the small table or play with toys on the blanket.

　　This fixed area rule can effectively cultivate children's concentration and sense of order!

　　Similarly, you can only take one toy at a time. After playing well, you can send it back before you can exchange it for another toy.

　　Let's not ask children to say, please put away your toys!

　　Especially for babies, most of the time, they don't understand the phrase "put away the toys", which is too general.

　　We should break up the work of packing toys into several steps, so we can tell our children:

　　Give a simple and clear request and instruction at a time, and then give a second instruction after the child finishes, which will help the child understand the specific requirements for you to ask him to pack his toys.

　　As for children's enthusiasm for toys for three minutes, they will not play with new toys once, but they will still buy them when they see them. What should we do?

　　Children are naturally curious and have a desire to explore. Toys can satisfy children's curiosity and exploration needs.

　　Therefore, it is very important to buy the right toys.

　　The same toy, as long as we put our heart into it, can play different tricks, that is, to keep children interested and gain a sense of accomplishment in the challenge.

　　In the process of parent-child companionship, parents can study "108 new ways of playing toys" with their children.

　　This is also a good way to exercise children's imagination and practical ability.

　　Children's desire for toys is like women's obsession and persistence with new clothes and lipstick.

　　However, if children are indulged in endless material requirements from an early age, they will become selfish and arrogant.

　　Delaying satisfaction can help children learn to wait, cultivate restraint and know how to cherish.

　　@ 京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京京 You know, children's good habits come from parents' persistence; Children's bad habits must be parents' compromises and concessions.

　　Cultivate children's good habits bit by bit in daily life, and slowly, children will become more and more excellent!

　　I am teacher lulu, focusing on the sharing of Montessori children's family education. Thank you for reading, praising and paying attention. I look forward to discussing more parenting topics with you.

　　Every step of a child's growth is inseparable from the upbringing of his parents. Learning, life, character and habit formation are all without exception. Toys are indispensable items in children's lives. Every child will choose different toys at different growth stages. These toys are accompanied by children's growth, giving them happiness and opening up their intelligence.

　　Because children are naturally curious, they always have great interest in new things in the unknown world. Their way of thinking is different from that of adults. For example, when parents buy a car toy for their children, they always tell them to play carefully and not break it. However, in children's psychology, especially children in grade one or two of primary school, there is no concept of good or bad. What they are more curious about is what is in the stomach of a car? small

　　Why do cars walk by themselves? Therefore, it is often a toy that has just been bought. After not playing for half a day, they tear it apart and find out what is going on in the car. Their interest will soon shift. In particular, there is a car toy that can be disassembled and assembled. Children often buy it, disassemble it and buy it again, and then reassemble various models themselves. When my son was a child, I remember buying at least dozens of cars. These toys have a very important influence on the cultivation of children's interests, and even become the professional choice for his son to grow up and study in college.

　　Therefore, as a parent, if conditions permit, I think it is very important for children to meet their needs for toys as much as possible, which is very important for their intellectual development and training. Just ask your child what he thinks before buying a toy. Why do you want to buy several of the same toys? Do you want to remodel your new car? Can you tidy up your toys? On the one hand, it can curb children's desire to buy toys frequently, and at the same time, it can help children to slowly develop the habit of packing their own toys.

　　Deliberately hide the toys, and then ask the little basin friends, where are the toys to play today? Guide slowly, and the little friends will know, forming habits and rules! ?

　　This phenomenon is found in almost every child. Let me give you some advice based on my children's experience. I was upset at first, too. I thought the child was so disobedient, so I talked to him later. I asked first. Whose toy is it? He replied: "My", let him know that this is his personal thing first, and then I will ask who is playing, and he will answer himself. I'll give him an example: did mom put away all her things, such as computers and mobile phones? Does dad collect his razor after he uses it? After these two questions were mentioned, he himself said: the toys are mine, so I have to clean them up myself. Although he said so, he doesn't always clean up, but he still needs parents to remind him. Later, I gave him a suggestion. Every time I collect toys, I will collect one small flower at a time. When I have seven flowers (one week), I can get a small reward. The reward can be to eat what I like and buy a favorite toy. Later. Every day, he will take the initiative to pick up toys and collect rewards.