My opinion: not everyone understands, a few good children understand, and most children regret it only when they hit the south wall: they don't listen to the old man and suffer in front of them. What the parents said, he has no personal experience, and he can't listen to reason with him. He has his own ideas. No matter what you say, it's hard to change.

　　I remembered my colleague's daughter a few years ago. My colleague's family is good, her husband is a retired soldier at the regiment level, her son is in a military school, and her daughter is in junior high school. Colleagues wholeheartedly hope that she will go to college, and they usually pay close attention to her study. But the five fingers are out of place, and the children are not the same. Most of them are "other people's children" who are eager to learn. The children of 15 or 16 are rebellious, and her daughter is even worse. I feel bitter at school, and I am more and more unwilling to learn. It's the third grade, playing rough with boys, skipping classes, smoking in class, teachers inviting parents again and again, and colleagues are so angry. Sing a red and white face with your husband, apply both hard and soft, and do everything possible. As long as you study hard, all conditions will be met. But his daughter promised well, and within three days, she showed her true colors. I was so anxious that my colleagues burst into tears: "I said all this for your own good, so you can avoid detours in the future." "Her daughter, as if dying, said," Go your own way and let others talk. " Colleague said, "You have walked into the gutter." Her daughter leaned close to her and smiled and said, "I do." Colleagues were dumbfounded.

　　When colleagues told us about it, they said they were at their wit's end. Colleagues, because of their age and rich experience, have a knot in our hearts that we can't understand. We all go to talk to her and are generally persuaded. But she can't convince her children, and she has a deep sense of failure. As parents, we all understand her feelings, but the children who were unlucky and didn't learn to love learning in their previous lives had to comfort her: their children and grandchildren have their own blessings.

　　Later, the child managed to get into a vocational high school. Before he finished his first year of high school, he had to work to earn money. Colleague said: "There is no shortage of money for you at home, until you finish high school." But the child is determined not to go to school. As a result, I went out to work for less than half a year, and I had an accident riding an electric car, and there was no one. Inform the parents to take care of the aftermath, and the colleague did not drop a tear. Everyone praised her colleague's strength, but only a few of us understood that her heart was broken and cold to the soles of her feet.

　　This is just an example. Although most children don't go to college, in this group of universities in society, they will gradually understand the good intentions of their parents. If they don't suffer from learning, they will have to suffer from society in the future. But after that village, there is no shop, and they regret it. If only there were regret medicine in the world.

　　Does the child really understand how you are? What about this sentence? I understand it this way. I don't know if it's right. If you really think of the child, stand in the child's position, consider the child's feelings, think of the child sincerely, and do your best for the child from the bottom of your heart, the child can certainly understand that you are good for him. On the contrary, you always hurt your child under the guise of being good for your child, or you are not good for your child. Not only will he not understand your kindness to him now, but he will not understand it when he grows up. Because this disobedience is good for children, it is simply endangering children and affecting their physical and mental health. Of course children don't understand. If I were a child, I wouldn't understand either. On the contrary, you will resent it. Because it's not for the good of the children at all. Of course, the premise of being good for children is to learn to respect their feelings and their choices. Cultivate children's hobbies, talk with children well, discuss things well, and achieve the feeling, mode and way of being friends with children. That's what's really good for children. I hope that all children in the world can understand the kindness of their parents, and I hope that parents can respect and think for their children. I also hope that every child can understand that parents are really good to themselves.

　　Children certainly don't understand the phrase "for your own good", because their age now determines their level of knowledge and understanding of the world.

　　Therefore, at this moment, even if all the truth and experience instilled by parents are very reasonable and practical, children can't understand and accept it.

　　Parents and children have different cognitive levels, different life experiences, different views and understandings of the world and life, which determines that their communication is not at the same starting point.

　　Therefore, when parents tell their children what they think is "good for you", children can't understand and accept it.

　　There are some difficulties and setbacks that children must experience and experience, and they are the lessons of their lives and cannot be avoided.

　　As the saying goes, "Don't bump into the south wall, don't look back", and the truth of "for your own good" is not that parents can tell their children, but that children will suddenly understand it after hitting the south wall. This is a child's life, and parents don't have to interfere with their children's life choices under the banner of "being good for you".

　　For children, the real "good for you" is to give them enough time to grow up and give them enough freedom to experience life.

　　Parents' kindness to their children is not to make children understand love as good, but to make them feel love and good. It is selfish for you to force them to understand well. Parents should treat the relationship with their children correctly. Everyone is an independent individual. When children really understand your kindness from the heart, it proves that your parents have succeeded! I have been a qualified parent.

　　Does the child really understand the word "hello"? I don't think it's understandable. Some parents always do what their children should do from their own point of view, always saying that I am good for you.